Take care of yourself

I just returned from a wonderful 10 day vacation with my family, we did some great things, visited several State & National Parks, 3 Beaches and, of course the kids favorite Disneyland! (O.K. it wasn't for the kids it was for me;-). Now that I am back work seems to be easier, more enjoyable and yes the day goes by a little faster. I feel recharged. I had the opportunity to spend time with my family away from the phone, computer and work. (yes I did take the laptop to keep the new tricks article posted each day) but besides that NO WORK!

It’s important that we look for ways to nurture ourselves. I keep a list of ways to indulge myself—things like going to a movie, getting a massage, taking myself out to breakfast, skiing or sailing during the week, and so on.

What are some ways that you can take better care of yourself? Here are some key methods:

Taking Time to Yourself. This is so very important. You need the time for revitalizing the spirit. Don’t neglect this.

Pay Yourself First. There will always be bills to pay. Get in the habit of making things like a savings deposit a priority and doing it off the top rather than trying to make it after everyone else is paid. This is a super prosperity consciousness builder.

Exercise. This is one of the easiest things to let slide, either because we don’t feel that we have the time or that we just aren’t worth it. You will actually have more time, or at least more productive time, if you see this activity as a must-do.

Only you know what special treatment is best for you, but the ideas mentioned above should get you started.

Our society doesn’t give much recognition for being self-indulgent, but being there for others requires that we take excellent care of ourselves.

Young children are great at knowing and asking for what they want. Of course, they usually do it incessantly. They are not yet concerned about appearing selfish. But in our attempts to teach our children generosity and being unselfish, we sometimes make them feel guilty for staying true to their own needs.

As grown-ups, we often choose to do things for others that we really don’t want to do because we fear being criticized as selfish or uncaring. Acting out of duty or obligation isn’t the answer. It usually leaves us feeling resentful. We need to do those things that revitalize us and give us the energy and clarity to be supportive of others. From this space we can offer our best.

I’m also convinced that people respect us more for valuing ourselves. Think about the people you know who always say yes to everything and everybody. Do you respect them? Now think of those who are selfish and self-respecting enough to not try and please everyone. Do you think less of them? I don’t. They may not do all the things that I would like them to do, but I respect them. What I’ve found is that people tend to treat you about as well as you treat yourself. When you value yourself, people tend to value you more.

You owe it to yourself and those you love to take good care of your most valuable resource—you!

Scott Smith

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